What I Look For
PLEASE DO NOT SPREAD THIS!!!!
Ok, so after a really long convo, I finally decided to do this
To list out some of the characteristics that I look for in a girl
Please leave comments (or msn me) and I'll try to keep updating this (in case there are certain aspects that you want to know that I haven't written about)
So first,
I think alot of people have gotme figured out wrong.
In fact, I think that to really get to know me, you do have to date me and find out. To really find out where my boundaries lie.
So first, my ideal person would let me into their lives. Into all aspects of their lives (though not so much their work lives given the whole office relationship sorta thing). I want to be involved. To be the one they ask for help with their assessments. To be the one they ask for help when they have family issues. To be the one they ask for help when they have money issues. To be the one they ask for help when they just need help.
To be the one to take them home. To be one of the people they call just for the sake of chatting. To be one of the people they just want to be around. To be the one to look over them, to look after them when they're intoxicated, high, whatever (just in a state where they aren't thinking straight). To be the one standing next to them as they're hovering over the toilet spewing out what they had for dinner last night.
However, I do not want to be around them all the time. I would still want us to have some alone time. Some time where we could each go see other friends, to catch up with other people. For example, in a week, I would want to be with them, just hanging out, say 2 days of the week. I mean, I'm very happy with how much I see a certain person: Mon-Wed = Uni (dont see each other); Thurs - Fri = Work (See each other, but in an work environment, so that you're not actually with each other); and then just one day of the weekend where it really is just me and her. This is ideal for me. And without working together, then another day together would be ideal.
Just to further extend upon this, let's take a look at how we would be at parties. I'd imagine that for the first hour, we'd be together, hand in hand, side by side. Then for the next 4 hours or whatever, I wouldn't care. I wouldn't mind if we each went our separate ways to meet new people, catch up with others, whatever. But then in the final hour, I'd always imagine that we'd come back to each other, and once again, we'd be hand in hand, side by side.
Am I asking for too much?
And now onto something that I think alot of people have got me figured out totally wrong. It's about how forgiving and liberal I am. So let's start! We'll only be considering 3 things: kissing, dating others, and sex.
Whilst she's intoxicated, I wouldn't mind either kissing or sex. I'd forgive her. I'd forgive her for the first time on sex. And with kissing, I'd keep forgiving her. (As for dating, who actually agrees to dates whilst intoxicated???)
Whilst we've fallen apart (not in sync/major fight), I'd forgive her for the 1st and 2nd dates, though by the third time, its a bit if-fy, and fourth time, that would definitely be it. I'd forgive her for kissing others. And I'd forgive her for having sex with another person, one, two times, and again by the third time, I'd get a bit if-fy.
Whilst she's thinking straight, I'd forgive her if others initiated the kiss (though I'd ask her to stop), I'd forgive her for intiating the kiss with others (but first time only). I'd forgive her for having sex (for one time only). And I'd forgive her for going on a date with someone else (though it would raise some serious questions).
So there you have it. I think I'm pretty liberal on alot of things. Alot more liberal than other guys I know.
I'd like to think that I'm a very adaptable person. Changing myself to whatever it is she wanted from me. I also think that I'm a person who'd fight for the relationship. No matter how bad it gets. And I think that the only reason I would break up with a person, would be if it was mutual.
I'd also give most people a chance if they wanted. They only have to show me. But this would only apply once I get over ******. Because until then, I wouldn't be giving them a fair chance. Because until then, I'd still be putting ****** ahead of others. And until then, I am on a dating ban.
Sorry girls, but this is one complicated guy. But hopefully, you'd be willing to give this guy a chance. Who knows, it may just be one of the best things to happen to you. ^^
Please leave messages and comments. Especially if there's more you want to know about me!
PS. Please refer to Nat's blog http://natalieeee.blogspot.com/ for some really nice lyrics. Fall For You!!! ^^
posted by KrazyKing at
1:42 AM
7 Comments:
From Billy:
Yea pplz clearly king is everything chix look for - look at the (crazy) things he would do - come on man whatelse do u ask for from a guy (that used to b gay with me) - that's some near perfection stuf ur tokn abt rite here pplz
So...U...DATE HIM...(yea u no im tokn to u longhai thats rite, or am i~~)
On a different note, glad to c ur ranting haha and yea u'l have unquestioned support from all of us =D
Relax IF everything fails, there is ALWAYS longhai =D (rmbr the times u 2 slept together...)
Now back to pre-enroling = =
PROTECT MY BALLS!!!
--Billlyyyyy
(heh how nostalgic being back on your blog =p)
It takes a lot of guts to open up yourself to people's opinions, so a lot of kudos to you for doing so :)
You're such a fun-loving outgoing person King! Everyone loves hanging out with you~ It should be 'Everybody loves King' instead =p
But you're also incredibly open, honest, and caring too. Those are definitely very attractive traits no matter who's side of the fence you're sitting on :)
And you're also loyal and true to the one you love, yet also open minded and forgiving as you said :) My only concern is just that I hope you don't forgive too easily (god forbid that that situation ever arises)
But anyhoo, I wish you all the best in your conquest for your significant other =D
Girls, if you're reading this, GO OUT WITH HIM!!
i can't answer this since i'm neither male nor female. i have gender identity disorder so i always think i'm a guy no matter how female i look on the outside or how much of a bitch i am on the inside. i also tend to ramble on too much.
when you don't have a gender, you tend to be female and look like a gal.
this is prolli why on msn i tend to sound more like a guy, if that makes sense. i think, it just means... i don't sound like a girl and i don't sound like a guy so people think i'm a guy. right
i think i'm pretty manly around and when i talk to, matthew chan. whatever you spell his name. he's really cute and interesting but sometimes... i dont know i just sound like a fricken boring guy. like i sound like a damn bloke when i talk to him. i dont know why he said im female. like his talking style is different when he talks to girls. i think im saying, he knows im a girl. who knows what that could turn into?
well, im not modest around matt, since, most of the time when i talk to him i talk about how good i am. uhh yeah... i mean i say i'm better than him, a lot. like many times. not better than him byalot.
this is not a friggen chat room. or a form i meant ... forum
he has a really round, moon cake face. uhh or moon pie? which is it. it's hella pale... my word for white/pasty/light skinned. ew... okay i'll try and elaborate. he kinda looks... skinny, very skinny. that's how im going to put it as. i think it's a waste and prolli... i can't say, it will be destroyed since most of him looks exactly like a guy... and since im so boring and gay i'll make it short. he looks like a guy. even his style is pretty butch... like, a lot like a GUY. but like i mean, a white guy but more like a canto guy but more like... stylish? but in a very retarded fashion. like he gets up in the morning dressed in what he went to sleep in and no girls that's not his... uhh i wont finish this sentence im too jealous
basically, i think, he goes around naked. and goes into the bath with his singlet and pants on. i meant, his canto underneath shirts on. i mean... i think, he goes into the water, with, somethign white
i dont know i was like 'wtf' when i realised he did anything. i was so like... um... 'okay, i've never seen anyone do that but it's cool'
like... going on msn, for the sake of talking to people. i think my excuse would be, to annoy, or to spam. like... kinda mindless spam
i dont like him i actually think he's really evil. i kinda think he's stupid and very retarded, but at the same time, no. because he seems really intelligent to me and i have to admit i do find him intelligent. he's cute. like, really goodlooking. but for matt, more like... a guy... like, a guys' looks, instead of girly looks or like... girl-style guy-looks
he seems very intelligent, because obviously i am intelligent, so i think he is as well. i dont talk to retarded people because i know it takes one to know one which kinda means.. if i talked to a retard it would say, i am saying im one myself. and i dont say that im too stuck up about it to tho
like i think someone sucked the souls outta that guy. i kinda feel for him, but like... he's not bad. like, he seems popular... in a very uncool way.
no im not saying he's really a retard. i just wish he were more intelligent, and i really dont mean smart or modest, i mean, like, the act of knowing things that i don't know already.
and that's not hard. in fact, it is easy. to a certain extent
i already tolkd you i am no psychic.
it would be ensulting even to me. cuz i would never relate myself to one, and they would never consider me one.
i think the things they dont don't impress me. like, bending spoons... being scary, that doesnt impress me. anyone can do that
matt however... is like more modest? i know he is, because ppl who know him become more like him. that's kinda bad, and he kinda doesnt deserve it
im stressing this. smart people aren't retards. they are very mature and well off. they also tend to be white.
i dont know what matt is, or how smart he is but i find him intelligent. my defintion of intelligent is... he doesn't state the obvious, it doesnt seem so after king does... like he doesnt say "umm can you stop? i meant, shut up"
uh... yeah
i dont' know... i'm really confused but this is all because of the .... cute... matt type... person......... who is like.. a slut...........
anyway cya!
oh btw in answer to your crappy question..
yes... king must die
matt said, he has a girlfriend
yet, it's incest
what i translate that to is this. his girlfriend is actually incested with him, and she's actually his sister.
that says a lot...
prolli says this. he's single yet he has a girlfriend. and when he does, he doesnt say that to anyone but me. he also in love with what do you call them? crap boxes?
i think it's called an EXBOX
no i meant... um... he doenst tell people he has a gf but he told me. i dont know what that means, i think it just means, he had a gf and he doesnt like me. but he loves me anyway
which is obviously something bad.
i think of him as a ... that guy from hack/sign... hmm... he wasn't an idiot, and he was young. hmm he's really sweet though. his name was... shugo kunisaki? matt looks like him... but shugo is way cuter. i think shugo pwns him. anime chara's are hot. hawt i mean
well they are. but they also make you feel... fat and not anorexic and really retarded ... like spasticated and psychotic
i dont think he wants me. im obviously usless. and im not a chobits. theyre also kinda crappy, but they're really hot.
i think robots are hotter than humans. i mean the slim big boobs long legs thing, and you cfan't just say, it's cuz they cant gain weight. what stopped you from doing so? are anime characters all anorexic?
i dont' know... it doesnt matter...
generally, people crush on intelligent people only. nobody likes mature kinds, and the cute ones are just... mean
yes i tend to find him intelligent not just because i think i'm too smart. like i classify him as intelligent, it's not a compliment, but not like a comment either.
(not as prefessional as wendy qiu)
like he sounds intelligent. he uses words that i dont know the meanings of. like... 'retrospective'... and ... some gaming terms..
like his voice kinda is like... very, COOLLLLLLL
...
but like he kinda... sounds... i dont remember. i really don't
like he sounds cool. like i dont know what cool is but he sounds veyr cool... especially... very skinny. he sounds thin and like... a guy...
what the hell happened.
hmmmmmm... i dont think not seeing him is sad. cuz i might never get to see him, so it's not sad. i dont know what the standard response for that is. in fact, i think i know him. so it doesnt hurt that bad, and it's not tragic.
actually maybe it's just a standard response that it hurts a lot and it's actual PAIN. like it's psychological, not physical but not like, a sense or a sensation of fire or burning. i mean, it hurts but that's because it's PAINFUL. so you're actually feeling like you're being killed, instead of a good feeling like ... missing someone?
but i dont know how to describe it but it's very REAL. like a dream you can' never wake up from.
if it's all a dream, i can say that im kinda happy. because... then i know all of it is not real.
i dont know. i obviously am not hurting, but if i do i know it's real. and i will know, that everything is so damn real and that's the harsh reality.
it doesnt hurt... but it's painful?
like, sometimes, beauty can be painful to look at.
in other words i mean, i already chatted with the damn person on msn so i dont think i deserve more. and no it's not painful. but sometimes it can be. that's my response -.-
or is it? i dont remember just use that one
you know how they say, seeing someone makes you happier. ive never seen him, but from what i imagine of him from chatting with him on the web... it's like, kinda... like... a vortex
like, it's like talking to him, in real time. a human is typing that it's not a robot. and im not going to interpret that since im too lazy
what im scared most of is pain. like losing a loved one (i mean DYING)... or like... bleeding
and im also scared of anorexia..
then matt. i think im most scared of him... and i dont think that's love
well it's not love
it's like a feeling of... someone can read your mind but not know what you're really intending to do?
and it's like... you don't know... but you think you're westernized so you know for sure, and the world is like at your feet.
BASICALLY, IM SICK
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